There are three kinds of minds – the mind who never tasted insecurity, hence is open to everything – the problem is, as we empirically, it is so open that basically ones brain falls down – the second is the mind that tasted insecurity – the mind then becomes like a person watching a radar for enemy planes – super-sensitive and seeing any blip as potential danger – depending on the current state of anxiety, not to mention the continuous stress of heightened alertness, culminates in a highly rigid control-freak (obsessive) thinking, which though being effective, often in small matters (like spotting enemy planes) is ineffective in big picture vision nor change