There are only two ways to look at another, What they are worth? and really this is a reflection of what we hold valuable – if our value is in fame, we will only value them if they are famous, if our value is money, we will only value them if they have money etc. etc. – however, if we have true value, namely goodness and kindness, we will, as God (and Tzaddikim who reflect God, as well as humble people, do) value good and kind people