There are only three stages in a humans life: there is the stage of toddler which is all about me, ironically this stages affects people who like toddlers, have become egotistical, so again they think everything is about them; there is the stage of childhood and growth, which is realizing that it is all about a greater picture; and ultimately there is the stage of self-discipline, where we are able to discipline ourselves to do what the big picture tells us to do!