there are four – there is unfortunately the shamed person who being jealous of the non-shamed uses shame (that’s why for example in antisemitism, it never matters what you do, for the goal is only to shame – the same applies, anti-west… anti-white… anti-Israel…. etc.) then there are normal people (they’re basically looking for friendship – so they don’t shame, nor uplift – it’s a self serving quest;) then there are the saints (they realize people must be uplifted! – I have a friend – a holy Jew – he always is telling people how wonderful they are! – the Lubavitcher Rebbe was always showing people their greatness! – Helping People Fulfill Their Infinite Potential)