There are four kinds of people – those who never identified (found peoepl efficacious, so kids dropped off and unloved in orphanages with their physical but emotional needs neglected, have no association to people) there are those (especially children) who identify ( as they perceive benefit from people so they love them) There are then people who disidentify, either a. With themselves – this is a depressed person hence they see themselves as negative) then b. There are people who disidentify with people, this is people who have been abused so they are a. Pretending to be OK (like perfectionism) in order to not get abused again and b. They are angry at people for a. Hurting them and b. No one came to help them ( which is why as studies show the only way to heal is by having compassion so now a perosn thinks people are good) Then there are the people who grew up – they have low expectations of others but are resolved to do and be good and kind