There are basically three kinds of people those filled with love, those filled with resentment – now the former are induced into this state due to positive experiences of which they seek to hold onto ( hence as we see in the west many are incapable of believing impending disaster) the next is the exact opposite, namely as you fear, hence to protect yourself you create a delusional identity – the bully- the problem is the former are delusional in love, the latter in hate ( for they resent the joy of the former) finally there is maturity