The way God made the world, this is how things work – everyone is both a receiver and a giver

However, depending on the relationship, sometimes we have a receiver role, sometimes a giver – so for example, God is called the husband, we the bride, because we receive from him; of course in a marriage, the husband has the giver role, his wife the receiver, as parents, both are the giver to the children – in work, there is the boss and the employee, and in life we all have something to offer others, be it encouragement, wisdom, money and we all have what to receive from others, be it encouragement, wisdom – the trick is this, more than the receiver, say wife, needs your money, she needs your love, because it’s never comfortable to be dependent, hence we naturally fear losing that which we vitally need from the giver, hence, first and foremost the confirmation – constant, of the givers love – is needed, to make the receiver feel secure and then as we know, the ultimate giver, God reciprocates based on how well we give!