the truth, nothing but, so … either (usually in childhood when in security) we trust everyone… (till we get bullied by someone jealous of the happiness serenity and joy this gives us) and going into protection-mode whereby the brain like a laser beam is focused on all potential dangers (which is potentially anyone) we decide all are evil (no less a personage than king David said, "I said in my suffering, all men are evil") And hopefully (the entire intent…) we become mature (to do this firstly we must be out of danger – we must also learn to clam down (so considering how many soldiers commit suicide from ptsd – considering they are the macho etc. we see how difficult this is- but if we are fortunate enough, then we achieve what is called) post traumatic growth (we rise beyond our navit’e and beyond our fear, into courage)