The three ways you can see a relationship with God – as a helicopter, as a plane, or as a sailboat – in the first we are afraid he’s always stopping by – in the second we get onto this plane into some kind of fantasy / Nirvana, but the goal of a parent is not to carry the child… the goal of the child… goal of the parent for the child…. is that he wishes to be the wind which gently offers the direction, which the child himself using his own effort, takes