The three steps to heaven and hell – Heaven comes ironically not from something but nothing; for if we don’t see any value in ourselves, then we are not arrogant, hence our expectations are not emboldened, hence we are content, hence we are loving! – the natural nature of a human! – We see this empirically in children – The flipside (and ticket to hell) is to believe you are a VIP – so this emboldens expectation, hence frustration – For frustration is the result of unfulfilled desires and the more you believe you are entitled to the desire the more frustrated! – Now the side effect of frustration/anger is jealousy, for we are all jealous by nature, hence now you desire to cuase misery, which your mind finds the rationalizations/ justifications