The three stages of the brain – when in security the brain fire into fantasy – fantasy is imagination – for example i saw a study men daydream about vacation, women about marriage, however when under fear the brain fire into protection which has been called the fight or flight reaction – or entire biochemical reality transforms from love / desire / achievement to protection/ prevention – as this is a highly toxic and unpleasant reality then also become jealous of those who are not (as discussed) finally there is truth