The three rules of Life number one: we don’t deserve to live, it’s a gift; number 2. those who have been shamed are jealous of those who haven’t – and this jealousy creates a desire to destroy, therefore the mind comes up with mechanisms to justify shaming – so everyone who has shamed you, even if it was your parents, did so out of jealousy – for there’s no worse feeling than feeling shame – but ultimately, because everything comes from God – life never gives you what you want