The summary of reality – in the beginning lived a magical being who had a vison; in his vison he saw that he would create a universe which as you know is a space – really shaped like egg – and inside this egg there would be a round ball (earth) and on this ball would exist ultimate-intent – people – just the thought of people filled with such loving knowledge – he thought to himself, “How I wish to benefit these people” – now realizing that a person can only feel proud of his or her own accomplishments, he divided the stages of life into three – the first two thousand years was identity – for if you are conscious that you have been hatched, you don’t assume much self-importance – but as time wears on and you forget your Creator, your self-delusion becomes real – the second two thousand years become the era of the giving of the Torah where goodness and kindness though with enough distractions to allow for true freedom manifests – but this leads to the next two thousand years and the ultimate reward and intent, namely as our sages state, the giving of the Torah was the Divine engagement, but the messianic redemption is the marriage – in other words, because the magical being is well magical, hence though things may be outside of our realm and abilities, nothing is outside of his – he simultaneously can have multiple different, even seemingly antagonistic realities – we see this from how many various laws of nature must simultaneously function for life (be it gravity, based on size; heat; protection etc. etc.) so ultimately marriage is not where one person abrogates and dissolves the other; rather enhances! supports with infinite respect, patience and compassion, encourages.