The sum total of truth: no one has any right, not me, you, even the white-house narcissist, to shame – in fact, the only people who do shame, are those who have been (hence become jealous of those who haven’t – now jealousy is an emotion and as all emotions (see addiction) becomes rationalized – so the brain creates: a. a delusional sense of grandeur b. "as I am now greater than everyone therefore it is my right to demean" – simultaneously, we have another emotion to look good, so the brain sets up another reality – "it is not that I am a narcissist looking to demean, in fact it is that "THAT Person!" is Evil!" – however the refute of this "logic" is that when you love someone a. you don’t care .b you don’t even see)