the sum total of truth "I God from unconditional love (like a mother to her preconceived newborn – which is why they desire (or one of the primary reasons) marriage – which by no stretch is simple (if it’s difficult for a man, think for a woman)) with perfect foresight and adoration, out of genuine love, give you the opportunity to make your life valuable" (anything else would eliminate your freedom, hence your value, and by osmosis the value of your freely inspired contribution)