the sum total of all truth – in the beginning the lover of love created those that can love, but for their love to be real, not puppy love (a lion and a dog once met – said the dog to the lion, “it isn’t fair, I am so sweet to everyone yet you sit there and stare and yet they call you king!” – “don’t you understand little dog” answered the lion, “you just go to whoever feeds you”) so for love to be genuine, to be caring, to be compassionate, to be beyond what’s in it for me… – we had to well go through a process of maturation, and as Jung says, “there ain’t no such thing as growth without pain”