The structure – to understand reality we need to understand that we exist in the six dimensions of up, down, right, left, width and breadth – like a cube – you see, imagine two people facing each other, now one person is kind, the other cruel; they may not seem different, it’s just that their agendas are; the kind person has emotions, as does the cruel; the kind is about compassion, the cruel is about hate – generally speaking, a person is born blank, as we see the expressionlessness on babies, but as they receive love, their natural tendency to love, coupled with their soul’s compassion is born; however when a person has been abused, they go to the dark side of: fear + resentment + jealousy = pleasure over demeaning – however, as on can tell, both people are effectively "victims of circumstance; which is why all people can and often do follow this track"; However if a person uses the wisdom of Chassidus (the other two sides of the cube) you can eliminate fear through faith that all that happens is good or for a better good, and you can choose to love your fellow man, seeing what you have in common! (You are both creations of God, You both have the mission to light up the world, On a soul level you are both from God, like children of the same parent) Finally the ultimate mechanism of how to make choices which cannot be "instinctive circumstantial reactions," is through the floor – being humble; for relative to God’s wisdom, every single human / computer, from the beginning of time, to the end, cannot even create a fly and put life in it! hence connect to the ceiling (for when we are humble, we automatically allow God in)