The secret to life, is never in fulfilling our desires – which as the eyes see, the heart desires, the imagination dreams! is like (quite literally) fulfilling every dream we have – which is both impossible and like a dog chasing its tail; for we will never stop dreaming, fantasizing, imagining! Rather, it’s actually to understand, our desires are both frivolous at best and evil at worst – just look at the sum total of billions of human ambitions, from the beginning of time – so the trick is, to despise your desires connected to such stupidity and narcissistic (evil) desires; and instead, appoint a Mashpia, Chassidic spiritual mentor and (as he is unbiased about you) hence, allow God’s infinite growth machine, to guide you towards ever doing more!