The road to hell – let me tell you how I went to hell – the road to hell begins in a subconscious reality – this is where you think you are valuable – now when you think you are valuable, then if someone publicly shames you and devalues your value (which of course is perception, but the thought that you are valuable also was) you become livid – in this anger, you are as our sages teach, in hell (“whoever is angry, all the fires of hell consume him”)