the question in life is not what is going on? rather what should be going on? – when we view life from the spectrum of what people are doing, well perhaps as there were and pretty much are societies that sacrifice their children, so there is no technical reason to say, that society is any more debased then say our society, accepting lack of sexual structures – It just may be more foreign – But when we think “what should we…?” which is obviously, we should do what is right, suddenly we create an absolute truth – however, and this is really the innovation of the Rebbe – there must be a clear dichotomy between my expectations of myself and my exceptions of others, whereas on myself I must be hard, on others, I must only encourage