The most valuable thing that you can understand is that nobody that understands the intrinsic value of a human being, which includes themselves… would ever be mean; which means if anybody ever has been, they themselves – usually because someone else left them feeling that that they are worthless and they feel shameful, shame – hence though the bully may look tough – you may assume, that name it’s just as a knight in shining armor… the greater the armor, in fact the greater the fear