the most important wisdom Bar None is what the Holy Shala"h teaches us – that When God says in the Torah "See I have placed before you a blessing and a curse – life and death choose life! the blessing is if you will listen to me…" it is not that God, God-forbid is a narcissist and because you listen to Him, therefore He’ll throw you a bone… rather imagine somebody makes a video game and he says to you: See, choose the blessing and life