The lesson of the world cup – why do men in particular watch soccer or any game or play the games? for there is a single overriding question in their minds – “whose going to win?” – and subconsciously or maybe somewhat consciously there is likewise a single question in the minds of the fanatics in this world “whose going to win?” “will it be ‘us’ or ‘them’?” but in the mind of the lovers, peaceful good people, the question is never “whose going to win?” because we are not in competition, rather collaboration, we are not at war, we are at peace, we are not in hate, we are in love!