All of us at all times are living in one of three states: the first which we are hopefully born into, is delusion – there is nothing sweeter than a child who safely ensconced in the protective environment of their parent, like a butterfly…. they are happy to love – the second is unfortunately phobia – for in truth everyone wishes to be happy and everyone hates being in pain/shame, so what happens is that when a. is feeling the pain of fear/shame, s/he then becomes jealous of b. who lives in happiness; this jealousy is so innate (for it comes with the ego, which is also) that this occurs from parents to children, and as jealousy is like the tyrant who cannot handle any usurper (like the wicked queen in snow white “Mirror mirror on the wall – for she must be – the fairest of all…” and will expend extraordinary effort to eradicate their “enemy”) So parents (though from one side they love) will be malicious – as one mother obviously suffering from fear/shame literally told me to “beat her kid…. but not until death” (which I prefer not to get into how sick… but make no mistake about it, common, this “parenting model” is) So if we experience a pain, the mind will first and foremost seek to protect us – that’s what our mind does (tells us what’s in our interest, for like you, on the internet, it simply reacts) So now the mind – unfortunately as the cause of this suffering was random and malicious – will see all people as potential problems – This creates a social phobia, conditioning to fear, which affects 3% of the world population (that’s 210,000,000!!! people) now these people will often like hitler have generalized jealousy – for “why is it that you should be non-anxious while I am…” (again this is the ego hence the individuals subconscious assumption) and therefore they are willing (as he did) to commit suicide, as long as they can maim maliciously – but then there is a third state – it is between delusion and phobia, namely that there is a Go-d, all that occurs is for our both individual and collective growth