The infinite summary – there are merely four types of people – those who speak out of the illusion that all are loving (this occurs where there is safety – however if you God-forbid took away the police protection, as our sages teach, some people would eat you alive) the second is those who scam (having lost self-respect – like a clever monkey they simply finagle – in my experience, many Africans, certainly Arabs – basically people who come from harsh environments where it is, scam or be) the third is those whose only agenda is helping (this is G-d and those imbued with his holiness) the last is like parents