The five categories we all are in

We are either suffering from naive love – liberal – childhood – this comes not from a choice to love but an instinct (much like dogs love).

 

The flipside is we are suffering form naive anxiety – again this comes not from a choice rather an instinct – and as most of us have been stung by senseless shaming, we simply develop phobia.

 

However if we can somehow get over our phobia and through having faith that “man’s bad is God’s growth” as Josef said to his brothers, “while you meant harm, God elected me,” which is the truth, then we can begin to use our common-sense.

 

Once we find the truth – which is certainly an extraordinary effort, we then need to have courage – to do it!

 

Finally the ultimate state is to allow the Divine voice.