The facts of life are actually so simple, it’s laughable, if people weren’t so ignorant of them – we see things in blocks – the entire fabrication of our reality (which was constructed, as Einstein says, “Reality is an illusion, albeit a very persistent one”) is created: that the quintessential one which created, is covered by the awareness of both the individuality (the perceiver) and the myriad individualities (what we perceive;) now while that may be somewhat useful when applied to the physical world (distinguishing objects in time and space – helps not bumping into them etc.) it is highly unuseful when it comes to the inner soul in each of us – for example, a person is not either good or bad, all people are always both somewhat good and somewhat bad, it only depends – and the same is true in terms of selflessness and selfishness, love and ego, giving and taking etc. etc.