the equation of happiness is really so simple – expectations versus reality – so say I walked over to you and gave you a dollar, you could become happy because you didn’t expect it – say I came over to you and stole a dollar, you would be sad – say I was your boss and I paid you a dollar, depending on how much I owed you, say 50 cents, you may be glad, or sad, for if I owed you a thousand, what happened to the other $999?