The death of civility – civility isn’t that the essence of civilization – but what if a person was abused? In other words, within civilization, lies the dark shadows of jealousy – it isn’t fair – I was abused while you are happy! (I hate to say it, but a lot of husband-abuse comes from this feeling from wives) so in my humble opinion, to save civilization, we all need to make an extra effort to identify with one another – for once we love another, we treat them civilly!