The construction of the fake me – once upon a time I knew who I was – I fact Spiderman 3 is a great movie depicting this – we are love! – born by into love, we love – But then we encounter hate – hate has one gaol, to get us angry so that the hater feels less miserable that he is miserable, while you are loving/positive – And then we are faced with a choice – for if we hate the hater we deny our very soul as the hater denies theirs