The challenge of marriage for men, is not to allow their delusional sense of “conquering their woman” which hence enhances their ego, hence in their subconscious, they now see themselves as superior; hence one loses their compassion, and identification towards those “under” them; as Rabbi Gorner explained to me, when I asked him, how Ariel Sharon could have the incredible unbelievable callousness to uproot thousands of Jews from their homes “The challenge of power is sensitivity!” he replied.