The bottom line is this, a man must treat a woman as if she is a petal – we all have a tendency to believe others feel as we feel – I recall times in my life that unfortunately I was suffering from anxiety which effects self esteem and I could innately realize others, very much so women (whose right left and prefrontal brain connection cuases far more anxiety – studies show women have twice the anxiety of men) However when I feel safe I simply am not as attuned – the second point is this, as Jewish mysticism explains, all relationships have one of two possibilities: either there is a giver/receiver, dominant/hence the other not wishing to be violated acquiesces (or it is equal) in the male female dynamic though the male may not see it this way (especially with our throughlly foolish but dominate politically correct brainwashing) the female feels subservient – now even a man as wise as Aristotle couldn’t make this distinction thinking that slaves were inherently deficient not realizing that it was thier position in the relationship (but if the slave became a master a different side would dominate – this is simaleaer to a couple I know, that the wife is a Principle, so while in her school she is dominant, with her husband (and they have an awesome relationship) she is demure