The bottom line is so simple, I am not sure whether to cry or laugh – maybe just write another blog – o.k. best option – as Kabbalah teaches, we are a composites: we have a rational mind and an irrational heart (the center of our emotions, instincts, desires, mainly for pleasure and not for pain, but likewise we have from the Divine side of our soul, compassion and sensitivity) additionally we have an ego, a need for recognition and anger over being demeaned- and all hell breaks loose when people are angry – for essentially as all emotions which are irrational, hence renders us irrational, hence as for example the pleasure instinct causes people literally to give their entire family, lives etc. away for drugs, similarly, in the opposite, the anger instinct for revenge and even worse when jealous