The beauty of life is that the way God made all things exist in a counter balance – it’s like making a soup – if you have too much salt you can add sugar and vice-versa – so if you have too much hate you can simply add love (you do this, be simply seeing what you have in common and what is lovable, in others) If you have too much sadness, you can add happiness – you do this by seeing what is good in your life – if you are too frivolous (wasting time) you can add seriousness – you do this by realizing that once you’re dead, you have no more time)