The absolute truth – in life you can either be led by your nose like a dog sniffing – your instinctual desires, be they lust, ego etc make you like the dog, not even see your own shame – or you can be pulled like the dog on a leash, whose owner is dragging him – in other words, riddled with fear, anxiety and worry, we create false rigid expectations, that somehow will magically make the haters love, or you can understand: life is a game, to the extent you listen to the programmer, is the extent you are not only safe but happy