Subconsciously we think that others feel about us as we feel about them – this is why when we are loving we think (like many children) that everyone is loving – when we are fearful we think "everyones dangerous" – when we are angry we think everyone hates – the problem with that one is that we then are motivated to kill, for if they wish to kill us… (which is how the Nazis / Arabs see Jews, how Iran sees the west)