Studies show people prefer that you answer them a BETTER answer later than immediate answer NOW – one of the greatest problems of today, in fact, I would say, is perhaps one of the most destructive forces in the world is it used to be that your mind could think, but now, there’s this feeling that "unless I answer someone they might get upset with me," but as one wise woman told me, "I find that anybody that does… is just a messed up person."