Souliner: The truth is, we naturally identify, hence love fellow man; it is only fear that prevents us from loving – so to love, remember, that everything is a dream – just like what happens to you in a dream is out of your control, similarly, what happens to you on earth, is God’s miracles: sometimes cozy, sometimes frustrating; ultimately, to bring you to the destination he knows in advance is the greatest! most pleasurable! and most importantly! meaningful!!!