Soulienr: In order to feel good about yourself you need to a. physically have no worries (this can be accomplished if there God-forbid are worries, by trusting that as everything that happens comes from God and as God is only essentially good, thus whatever is happening is also for the best) b. you need to discover what it is that you are good at, and by using that skill for the betterment of others you will feel existentially good.