Sometimes we wish for the people in our lives to be happy. In fact, they once asked John Gray — one of the greatest researchers into marriage — “What do men want?” He said: Men want their wives to be happy. They then asked him, “What do women want?” And he said: Women want men to make them happy.It seems the missing link is this: How do we actually make our wives happy?I’m going to tell you a secret. I’m sure there’s more than one answer, but I have no doubt that this is the main one:Be happy.