Sometimes life deals us a lemon instead of lemonade, now I for one will not tell you to make lemonade; however, what I will suggest, is the following, Rabbi Menachem Mendel of Kostk says “what is the difference between someone who loves truth or hates falsehood?” – don’t know – “the difference is, someone who loves truth, rests not until he finds truth, and someone who hates falsehood rests not until he sees the falsehood, so we must decide if we want to focus our body heart and soul on avoiding danger, or risking it and enjoying life!