Something to really think about – basically studies show the reason for the breakdown in relationships, for when people marry they want to, is often because the husband begins to feel superior to his wife – for certain reasons this is natural in marriage, however as the Rebbe says, and as is obvious through logic, you cannot love who you feel superior to! – so when the wife doesn’t feel loved – even if you do the world for her, because love is a feeling of equality, not of being served, as you don’t feel love, say from a waiter or maid – then she stops loving etc. etc. – if you really want your marriage to work: tell yourself that you are two halves of the same soul!