So you wanted to understand men/women… – you see, we innately understand our own – but we don’t understand the other… – however, through using kabbalah, which remarkably predicted the fundamental differences in brain size matter, thinking processes, that create the characteristic differences of men / women (which science discovered) it’s all pretty simple – fundamentally speaking, all people are the same – we need security, we desire meaning, we need and want, love, friendship, companionship and – and this is very important – we have a subconscious need for grandeur, and we have a desire to not be shamed – Now there are two kinds of shame, there is internal and external (though fundamentally they feel the same; as there can be an internal or external cause of pain.) In simple words, women (as the Rebbe says) consider it an honor (and of-course, also seek for the sake of companionship, security, children) to have a man (What they want though, is to know that their man – much like a man would like to know from his employer, is one hundred percent dedicated! – That is why men often find women stifling – however if a man simply follows the Bible’s prescription – “Provide For Her Physical And Intimate Needs,” your good to go.)

By zevi770 · February 9, 2018