so though you can never trust psychology as for the first 60 years it was completely wrong, but be that as it may, the fact is, that the latest is, that 60% of your circumstance is based on genetics as well as quite literally circumstance – you can’t compare a person born in America to born in China – but 40%, no matter who you are, or where you are, is up to YOU – so that means you have the ability to make all the choices that will be beneficial to You, to SOCIETY and to God