So in reply to your quest for the best life possible – I will tell you based on the deepest secrets of life – secrets known only to the greatest mystics who God directly communicated the entire human psyche – revealed the physical and spirit world he made – have told us! – all we need to do is pretend we are in a car – this car has a gps – now the only choice any human being gets to make in life, is who will be the voice in the gps – Here are your options: the first is the voice is your internal compass (as this includes both higher, lower and vile (anger etc.) ideals, you will be conflicted and each side of you will despise the other – it is not fun living in conflict, either external or internal) The next option is to cower in fear of others (and as there are 7,000,000,000 people you will then need to behave according to the whims, an internal crazy gps of each of them – talk about going in a million opposing directions!) The third and best idea is to fulfill the words of the Baal Shem Tov, “fear no-one!” for after all God is good, so who cares! – and “humbly listen to the messages” – for God is always talking to us – effectively all these gps’s are playing simultaneously – you will always have internal messages and external messages but if you attune your antenna and hear the voice of God – you will live the best life possible!