So I was driven to the airport today by my scholarly sincere wise etc. nephew and it came up the Chassidic explanation that we must simultaneously see our soul’s greatness and our body’s evil – he clarified: simply love your goodness and kindness (and we all have a good heart) hate your selfishness (and we all have an ego that will – which is why it happens) rape, steal, murder and more subtly, demean, vilify, shame, denigrate, demoralize, when it feels jealous)