We are all destined to go through three life altering events – the first is birth, going from being one hundred percent comfortable to getting hungry, tired, cold etc. Hopefully we have a good mother and we learn to trust – then we go to the state of distrust, for when we are in the state of security someone in the state of insecurity will see evil in us ( for as there is natural jealously, hence those who have themselves been bullied and are in survival mode become jealous of those who feel happy, for the bully is only putting on a clown smile) after we enter distrust, then either we continue in survival… but hopefully and usually this actually is our real birth