We need to ask ourselves “all things beings equal what should my contribution to family friends and society be” – only in this will we find meaning hence happiness, not to mention friendship harmony and unity.

We have to get beyond fairness,

Aristotle writes people want things to be fair.

children want fairness for in fairness while we are not less than another we are also not more than another –

democracy and communism ironically are all about fairness

Judaism looks at reality from a more realistic perspective

“there will always be poor people the Bible the creator of reality states objectively”

the question is not fairness, rather contribution

the question is not about “my rights” but “what should my contribution be?”