overcoming anger = you see, the secret to life lies in the understanding as all the great masters such as the Baal Shem Tov, the Rebbe comprehended – You see, why is it that when we are young we are loving? – the answer is because we are naive – for when we are naive we perceive that all people, like us, are loving – but then there are those people who have become narcissistic bullies – in essence, they too once upon a time where naive and loving – but there is a critical virus that runs through our bloodstream, called jealousy