Our sages teach, that the sword maker gets its head chopped off from the swords he made – in other words, whether we like it or not, we are all putting out an energy, our energy is either love or hate (if we are simply depressed, we are alone and not interacting, but if we are engaging with the world, it can only be one or the other) but the people who put out hate, forget, that it eventually chops off their own heads